Love is Everywhere. (Even in your Car!)

Love is Everywhere. You can receive love from everyone.... if you're open to it.

Yesterday (Thanksgiving Day) I was driving to my family's dinner.

I pulled up to a red light and glanced over at the car next to me as I felt someone looking over.

A man in his mid to late 40s was looking over at me - and when I glanced over, our eyes connected.

I quickly turned away as I didn't want to encourage some sort of "hey baby" exchange and didn't want him to think I was interested.

I played with my car radio, cleaned off my sunglasses, and still felt his eyes on me.

I glanced back real quick.

He was still looking... and signaled me, like he had a question, was lost, etc...

I turned down my radio, gave him a half smile and listened to what he had to say...

HIM: "You look lovely today"

We both laughed out loud

ME: "Ohh... thank you" (with smile)

We both laughed again

HIM: "Yea, I noticed you"

ME: "It's okay... nothing wrong with that (smile)... (pause).... thank you for noticing" (smiled again)

HIM: (smile)

HIM: "Happy Thanksgiving"

ME: "Happy Thanksgiving to you too!"

HIM: (smile)

ME: (smile)

light change.... we both drove off.

Love is everywhere.

Flattery and adoration can be found everywhere.

Open yourself to the love that is all around you.

Love isn't just from one person.

Love comes from everyone....and in many forms.

Not sure how to open to love?

Not sure how to receive love?

or attract it?

Start here:
http://www.loveguru.net/prepareyourself.html

Or here:
http://www.loveguru.net/bestkeptdatingsecrets.html


I teach about spiritual principles and how to use your internal power to attract love, so because of that reason these products work for women and men

Wishing you the best in love.... and lots and lots of men (or women) stopping you in your car (or on the street) to tell you they notice you... and think that you're lovely too!

xoxoxo
Blaire

How To Pick The Best of the Best as Your Life Partner

Dating Tips Video: How To Pick The Best of the Best as Your Life Partner
by The Love Guru Blaire Allison
www.loveguru.net



Blaire Allison is a Love Expert known as the Love Guru. She's also an Intuitive Heart Healer with the gift to open and heal your heart so you can attract the love you desire. Blaire teaches an easier, more natural, flowing way to attract love - what she calls "The Spiritual Way to Attract "the One". Blaire has been featured in the NY Times, LA Times, MSNBC, Montel Show, Inside Edition, Glamour Magazine, etc. She's the host of the popular Love Life (Heart) Confessions Radio Show on Blog Talk Radio and a Contributing Writer for the National Magazine, Travelgirl. More information about Blaire can be found at www.loveguru.net and www.datingtipsfordudes.com

Connect with Blaire is on Facebook and Twitter!

More Info/Schedule a Private Phone Session -
Intuitive Heart Healing & Love Attracting Sessions

CDs/Audio Downloads/Ebooks
Prepare Yourself for Love

Clear & Cleanse Your Love Life

Embracing a Breakup

Dealing with Jealousy

Meet Men Everywhere You Go

Husband TShirt

Blaire's Flow Method of Dating

Ask For What You Want, Need, Or Wonder About In A Relationship

Pick Up Girls In a Non Player Way

Get Out of the Friend Zone

You're Invited... Awaken In Your Sexuality Class - NYC

NYC Class - Awaken In Your Sexuality Class

Most women are "asleep" when it comes to their sexuality
Doing sexual things for men on autopilot

Why?
Because we feel we have to do them... rather than doing them because we truly want to


There are pressures that come along with being a woman
Pressures that come along with being a sexual woman

Are you aware of these pressures?

How do you deal with them?

(by the way, if you're like most women you're not even aware of how these pressures affect your love life and your sexual encounters)



Are You Awake, Aware, Truly Feeling and Knowing Your Motivations

When It Comes To Your Sexuality?


How much of the sexual pleasure you give is done because you truly want to?

How much of it is done because you feel you have to?


About The "Awaken In Your Sexuality" Workshop:

In this 1 hour workshop you'll learn about yourself. You'll awaken to what holds you back in your sex life. You'll learn why you do the sexual things you do. You'll be surprised at what you discover.

This workshop is for the shy and timid.. as well as the wild and promiscuous.

This workshop is about becoming aware and empowered in your sexuality. It's not about becoming more slutty. It's not about taking on more sexual partners. It's about exploring the things in your sex life that scare you. The things that make you uncomfortable, the things that gross you out, the things that you would never do. Not for the sake of forcing you to do them... but for the experience of exploring how your sexuality has affected and shaped you as a person.

I know, this is a taboo topic. When I've taught some of this material in another one of my classes, the girls blushed. They giggled, they got embarrassed. They also thanked me, let out a sigh of relief, smiled, laughed, felt lighter and freer.

They left no longer hiding behind fear and shame. They left no longer feeling embarrassed, ashamed, confused or pressured when it came to their sexuality. They left being aware, awakened, and empowered with how they want to live their lives and how they want to present themselves sexually. No longer a victim running on autopilot. No longer controlled by what others wanted them to do.. or what others expected them to be in the bedroom, but consciously deciding these things for themselves. The choice to be who you really are sexually, rather than playing a role is very freeing and highly attractive.

When you examine how you think, what motivates you, and why you do the things you do in your sexual life, you open yourself up to a world of freedom. Freedom to experience more pleasure, both on the giving and receiving end. You experience a deeper connection both to yourself and your beloved.

* Bring your journal and pen to take notes and participate in exercises and meditations.

NEW YORK CITY - Saturday, October 31st 2009 - 7-8PM

Get your ticket / more info - http://www.metroplanners.com/awakensexuality.html

Announcing "The Power of the Penis" Class

The Power of the Penis

The Penis has Power.

Power to excite you. Power to entice you.

Power to scare you away.

Yes, that's right... I said scare you away.

The Penis Can Be Scary.

* "Wow - it's soo big, do I really have to put it all in my mouth?"
* "I gag when giving blow jobs"
* "I don't like the way his sperm smells... it makes me nauseas"
* "I hate giving blow jobs.. it gets boring.. he takes too long.."
* "Ohh no, he's so small.. what do I do now? I don't want to make him feel bad.."
* "The balls.. what am I supposed to do with the balls?"
* "I feel unsure about my technique.. am I doing a good job? I just want it to be over"

So you see... the penis can be scary.

Join Us In Class... We'll talk about The Power of the Penis

Isn't it time that you stopped being timid. Stopped being ashamed. Stopped being insecure when it comes to the penis.

Come with an open mind and the intention to be more empowered in your love life. Class is 1 hour and focuses on the spirituality and psychology of "hooking up". Get ready to experience more intimacy in your relationships.

Bring your journal and pen to take notes and participate in exercises and meditations.

Details:

New York City

* Saturday, October 24th 2009 - 5-6PM

Get your tickets: http://www.metroplanners.com/power_of_the_penis_class.html

Honoring Myself. Shopping For A Lover

Honoring Myself. Shopping For A Lover

"Lately Blaire is boy crazy. Going out clubbing. Going to bars. Hitting on boys. All she can post about on Facebook and Twitter is men, men, men."

Yes, that's true. Lately I've been on a manhunt. Why? Cause I'm shopping for a lover. Yep, you read it right... Blaire's "shopping" for a lover.

I know, I know... I debated about sharing this with you guys - had thoughts of keeping it to myself but I've always been honest with you, I've always "kept it real" about what's going on in my love life, so why would I stop now? Should I hold back just because I'm talking about my sexuality now? Is it something I should be ashamed of? And that's right... that's what society teaches us... sex is such a taboo topic... a topic filled with judgment and shame, which is odd since sexuality is one of our needs as a human... but anyway, I can't stand in that place of shame and judgment anymore, that's no longer who I am so I'm sharing.

It's an experience that I feel excited about, empowered by, and hopeful for. I'm looking forward to a beautiful sacred experience.

So why is Blaire shopping for a lover? What's going on?

Well, I've done all the manifestation work to attract my "One." I feel him... I know he's near... I have an energetic connection to him. Our hearts are connected... I feel this and know it. So now, it's just a matter of me raising my energy, staying happy, being patient and to walk the path... for both of us (him and I)... to follow the energetic trail that leads us to one another. It's very beautiful and I am sooo excited to finally meet him!

So basically, it's a waiting game and a feeling game... and I'm doing my part with both of this things.

But in the meantime, there's another side of Blaire. The side of Blaire that's playful, flirty... and sexual. This side of Blaire has been hiding out for a long time. Over the years I've pushed her away, tucked her down, tossed her aside. I did this when I made the very serious decision that I wanted to attract the "One." This is when the serious "I want my life partner" side of Blaire stepped in and started calling the shots... and I listened.

I stopped hooking up with guys that I wouldn't consider marrying. The sexual Blaire was shut down. Sure, I had sex over the years... and good sex too... but my planning mind was always involved. If I had sex, it was always with a guy that had potential to be my life partner.

But now, having gone through deep spiritual healing and transformation over the last two years... having learned a lot about myself over this time, having embraced my sexuality and really being empowered in it... I'm interested in exploring a new type of relationship experience - one where I grow sexually.

And I know, I know... Blaire doesn't talk about her sex life on the blog. Blaire doesn't have one night stands or casual sex. Blaire doesn't promote that... well, once again, I have to say, as I evolve so does my journey and my outlook on things.

And it's true - sometimes I don't even recognize myself these days. I'm going out for drinks again... I stopped drinking over the years, but now I'm doing it again - and it ends up I really like it!

I'm going dancing again and hanging out in bars... but wait, Blaire stopped doing that, she thought it was a thing of her past, something to "grow up" from, right? Well again, looks like things have changed with this too. Ends up I still really like it, get filled with such light when I'm out and it's a great experience for me still.

Blaire's a vegetarian... she doesn't eat meat. But wait, Blaire LOVES stopping at White Castle on her "going out" nights... but, huh? Blaire doesn't eat meat (well is White Castle even meat? lol! that's another topic, I digress), but yea I do like White Castle... they're mushy and yes, partly disgusting, but also very associated with my days in the past, stopping at fast food joints after a night out clubbing and drinking... and I like it again... so I'm doing it.

To me, these days, it's all about honoring myself. Honoring my desires and (trying to) not judge them. The idea is to follow what makes me happy... what makes my heart sing, what makes me feel ALIVE.

So yea, I know, things are different. Things have changed. Things are changing... I'm getting to know myself again... I'm tempted to call this new side of me "the new me" but I actually think it's the REAL me.

Over the last 2 years I've gone from one end of the spectrum to the other... vegetarian, no makeup, no heels, no dressing up, no drinking, no sex... To balancing it out with the other end... dressing up sexy again, putting on makeup again, wearing heels again, eating White Castle (I was going to say eating meat again but still not into that - White Castle seems to be my only temptation with meat these days), drinking and clubbing again, and expressing my sexual side - and seeking a lover.

It's another side of me. One that I embrace as beautiful and for me to not share it on here with you would give the message that I'm ashamed of my sexual desires and that's not the message I would want to be sending to you and more importantly to myself.

So let's go back to talking about my shopping for a lover.

So...I'm excited about it! I feel sneaky being out on the prowl... Each time talking to a different man, being able to tap into him intuitively and see what's going on with him... deciding if he's a good match for me with this or not.

In our society we always hear about a guy with his sexual conquests, his desires for sex, his ulterior motives... but what about women - and their sexual needs? I'm still not one for one night stands. I'm not for the disconnection... the escapism that happens when two people aren't conscious in their lovemaking. Many people are in long term relationships and married and still aren't fully present with their lovers. This I'm not into either and makes me sad... but for my experience, this one with my lover, I'm planning on having a friendship with him. I'm planning on finding a man who I enjoy being around... a man who I enjoy his energy... someone I admire... find attractive, and of course someone who I'm sexually drawn to.

I'm planning on being fully present with him and with myself when we make love. I plan on watching him when he makes love to me. I plan on watching myself being made love to. I want to watch myself make love. I want to watch his reactions to what I do to him. I want to drink it all in, taste it, see it, feel it, be it... to experience it all... to fully get to know him and myself.

And sure, I'm a bit confused about the logistics of all of this...

"How do I attract my life partner while I'm in a relationship with someone else?"

"Where do I meet this type of guy to have sex with... that I can have a relationship too?"

"Won't I get attached? Or unfocused in my journey to my life partner?"

"Aren't I giving myself double the work ...attracting a lover and attracting my life partner too?"

And yea, of course I can get wrapped up in the details of these things, but I choose not to. A few weeks ago I made the commitment to practice staying in the present moment, to honor my desires, to take it one step at a time, to trust the flow... and to have fun.

And that's what I'm doing now... in my quest.. to take up a lover.

Wish me luck! xoxo


Wishing you the best in love,

Blaire Allison
Intuitive Heart Healer
The Love Guru


Blaire Allison is a Love Expert known as the Love Guru. She's also an Intuitive Heart Healer with the gift to open and heal your heart so you can attract the love you desire. Blaire teaches an easier, more natural, flowing way to attract love - what she calls "The Spiritual Way to Attract "the One". Blaire has been featured in the NY Times, LA Times, MSNBC, Montel Show, Inside Edition, Glamour Magazine, etc. She's the host of the popular Love Life (Heart) Confessions Radio Show on Blog Talk Radio and a Contributing Writer for the National Magazine, Travelgirl. More information about Blaire can be found at www.loveguru.net and www.datingtipsfordudes.com

Meeting Men at Bars. Meet Men at the Gym - The Love Guru

Meeting Men at Bars. Meet Men at the Gym - The Love Guru

Travelgirl recommends: The upside of dating in a down economy

Just found out my Travelgirl Magazine article was picked up by the Sun Herald (Mississippi)!

Read the full article below:

Travelgirl recommends: The upside of dating in a down economy
By BLAIRE ALLISON - travelgirl

Listen to any newscast for too long and you're likely to get depressed about the economy. With gas prices in constant flux, you may ask yourself, "Is this really a necessary trip?" every time you put your key in the ignition. Perhaps you've cut down on your manicures and pedicures - or eliminated them completely from your routine. You may be unemployed - or afraid of losing your current job. You've begrudgingly cut back on letting others do the cooking and started preparing more meals at home. Well, here's some positive news: When the economy is unstable, it's actually the best time to attract "The One."

Attracting "The One" in a Down Economy

When the economy is poor, it's a great time to see if the man you're dating or in a relationship with is truly rich. Society teaches us that if we want to know if a person is rich or poor, all we need to do is take a look at their bank account balance. But numbers don't tell the whole story. A truly rich person is one who can see beauty and richness in every situation, not just when things are rosy on the outside. So in this down economy, and in your journey choosing your life partner, choose a man with an abundant mindset and it'll bring you all the riches in the world.

Is Your Man Truly Rich?

Before I share with you ways to know if your man is truly rich or poor, let me define the difference between the two mindsets.

A Prosperous State of Mind

People with a prosperous state of mind have a positive outlook on life. They are full of faith, and overflowing with trust. This isn't a mindset of "let me fake positive thinking" or look at life "through rose-colored glasses" but rather one that is grounded in belief in the bigger picture of life. Someone with a rich state of mind knows who they are, knows why they are here on Earth and what they have to offer others. No matter what is happening in the outside world, there's calmness inside of him because he knows that everything will be okay.

A Scarcity Mindset

Sadly, most people in this world walk around with a scarcity mindset. Sure they may have loads of money in their bank account, but when you speak to them and get inside their mind and have an awareness of their thoughts, you realize that they are filled with fear and anxiety. Fear that they'll never have enough money. Worry that they'll lose it all. A person with a scarcity mindset - someone who is truly poor - carries around a giant burden of financial worry. This is common with workaholics. Why do they work so much? If you dig deep and analyze the reason for their constant work, it's because they fear they won't be successful and won't have enough.



Another telltale sign of a scarcity mindset is a person who sounds like a broken record, constantly complaining about money. Things may be too expensive for them, or not worth the price or a "rip-off."

Attracting a Wonderful Partner in a Depressed Economy

When the economy is on an upswing, dates tend to be extravagant outings designed to paint a picture of prosperity. There's plenty of wining and dining when the money is flowing freely. Not so when we're watching every dollar. When the economy is rich, it's easy to cover up your worries with a sense of security. The test of whether a man is truly rich is seen when money doesn't flow as easily or frequently. So when dating, pay attention to your man's character, notice what's at the core of his personality. Be aware of how his words and actions can reflect his true character and how "rich" it is.

4 Ways to Discover the True Character of Your Man

1. Is he a fearful worrywart?

Listen closely when potential partners talk about money or the economy. Does he talk incessantly about his financial worries? Does he always lament about how things in life are "too expensive" or does he label something "a rip-off" that you might consider a worthwhile splurge? Are the phrases, "I can't afford it" or "I have no money" standards in his vocabulary?

You also want to pay attention to what's being said beneath the surface. It's not just what your man is saying, but more importantly, how he's saying it. Pay attention to the tone in his voice. Does he sound fearful, insecure and worried? Or is he upbeat, filled with confidence, trust and faith when it comes to his job and money affairs?

2. Is he depressing?

Nobody wants a partner who's down in the dumps. Sure, the economy has seen better times, but when you're choosing a life partner, you want one who's going to be able to cheer himself up and handle his emotions. This doesn't mean that he can't come to you for support - but if he's always bringing you down and leaning on you too much, he's not a good match.

3. Is his glass half-full or half-empty?

Whether someone has lots of money or none at all, it's important to have a positive mindset. Life is all about ups and downs. It's about lessons and challenges. As humans, we're here to learn through life's obstacles. It's always best to choose a partner who lifts you up, rather than drags you down.

4. Is he a creative, "out of the box" thinker - or is he just plain boring?

It's easy to "wow" someone when there's plenty of money to go out to eat at fancy restaurants, buy flowers and other gifts, but what happens when there's not an excess of money to go around? In a down economy you get to find out! Is he a creative man? A trendsetting thinker who comes up with ideas and makes things happen - no matter what.



No money is required to write you sweet love letters, cook you dinner, give you massages, hold your hand or take a romantic stroll. More free romance could mean planning an antiquing adventure, visiting a museum, playing board games or having an impromptu picnic in the park. When choosing a partner, choose one who has the same "can-do" attitude that you have. You want a man who will make things happen and who is creative with the resources that he has access to, whatever they may be.

There will be money ebbs and flows in everyone's life, but when you are with your perfect partner - "the one" with a rich mindset - the ebbs last shorter and the love between the two of you ends up being stronger.

3 tips to being your "richest" self:

1. Watch your thoughts and watch your words! Are you worrying? Turn it around! Take time to connect with yourself, get grounded and choose faith over worry.

2. Are you depressing to be around?

Complaining to your friends about your money - or lack thereof? No one wants to be around a downer. Practice gratitude for the things you do have. Start a gratitude journal.

3. Can't afford fancy restaurant meals or get your weekly mani/pedis? Put on your creativity hat and get some fun back. Gather friends and have a potluck where everyone brings an exotic dish from a far away land. While your friends are over, take turns painting each other's nails!

About Blaire Allison The Love Guru
Intuitive Heart Healer with the gift to open & heal your heart so you attract the love you desire. In 2004 Blaire was frustrated in her search to find the "One." She had successfully helped singles attract love but couldn't get it right for herself. So she put up a website, www.marryblaire.com stating "I'm Ready To Get Married - Do You Know My Husband?®" and went on a spiritual journey & transformation that taught her an easier, flowing, natural way that brings your "One" to you, rather than you going out searching. This is what she call "The Spiritual Way to Attract "the One" Whether you're in your 20s or 60s, the teachings and spiritual principles are the same! Why? Because Universal Laws apply! Blaire is regularly featured in the Media... NY Times, CNN, MSNBC, Montel Williams Show, Inside Edition, Glamour Magazine, and as 1 of the 30 Entrepreneurs Under 30 in The NY Daily News. www.loveguru.net

Thought Jerker: Dating Older Men vs Dating Younger Men

Thought Jerker: Dating Older Men vs Dating Younger Men
by The Love Guru Blaire Allison
www.loveguru.net

* New Dating "Thought Jerker" every Monday

What's your truth in this situation? Post your comments below

Blaire Allison is a Love Expert known as the Love Guru. She's also an Intuitive Heart Healer with the gift to open and heal your heart so you can attract the love you desire. Blaire teaches an easier, more natural, flowing way to attract love - what she calls "The Spiritual Way to Attract "the One". Blaire has been featured in the NY Times, LA Times, MSNBC, Montel Show, Inside Edition, Glamour Magazine, etc. She's the host of the popular Love Life (Heart) Confessions Radio Show on Blog Talk Radio and a Contributing Writer for the National Magazine, Travelgirl. More information about Blaire can be found at www.loveguru.net and www.datingtipsfordudes.com

Connect with Blaire is on Facebook and Twitter!

More Info/Schedule a Private Phone Session -
Intuitive Heart Healing & Love Attracting Sessions

CDs/Audio Downloads/Ebooks
Prepare Yourself for Love

Clear & Cleanse Your Love Life

Embracing a Breakup

Dealing with Jealousy

Meet Men Everywhere You Go

Husband TShirt

Blaire's Flow Method of Dating

Ask For What You Want, Need, Or Wonder About In A Relationship

Pick Up Girls In a Non Player Way

Get Out of the Friend Zone

Party with The Love Guru

Party with The Love Guru
** Perfect for Bachelorette Parties, Girl Gatherings, Birthday Parties, Divorce Parties

Party with The Love Guru.. she's a Party Animal!

All ages welcome. Great for you and your friends... whether you have a man or are looking for "One"!

Choose Your Party Type

Intuitive Heart Healing & Love Attracting Readings Party
Having a party? Have Blaire come and do readings for you and your friends! 15 minutes each guest. Everyone gets private, personal attention from Blaire to get Intuitive Guidance about their Love Life. Two rooms are needed (The 1st room is for you and your friends to party in. The 2nd room, which will need to be separated from the 1st room - and quiet - for Blaire to do readings in). Tell each of your guests to come to the party with a specific question and/or issue they are having in their love life. Bring pen & paper to take notes on what intuitive guidance comes through, as well as exercises that are given. Party cost is $300 and lasts 3 hours. (10 people will get a reading). Depending on your location, there may be an additional travel charge of $100-200. Pay for your party with readings here.

Q&A Party with The Love Guru
Gather a group of your friends and invite the Love Guru to speak. This is a "free for all" party, meaning that Blaire will spend an hour with your group answering their questions and issues regarding love. Many times we have the same issues in love that our friends have, so this is a great time to ask Blaire all the questions you have and learn together with your friends. Fun, inspiring, & interactive. Bring pen & paper to take notes on what intuitive guidance comes through, as well as exercises that are given. Teachings will be for 1 hour. $30/person. Minimum party cost is $300. Depending on your location, there may be an additional travel charge of $100-200. Pay for your party here.

Party Details
When should I book my party? As soon as you're ready. Blaire is very busy with press interviews, travel and speaking engagements so the more in advance the better. Party dates aren't guaranteed until your payment is received.

How do I book? All major credit cards are accepted. To reserve your party a non-refundable payment of $300 is required. Payment links are posted above under "Choose Your Party Type". Once your payment is received your party date is guaranteed.

Cancellation Policy: All parties and payments are pre-paid and non-refundable. If for any reason you have to cancel your party, cancellation requests must be made by email or phone. If your cancellation request is received at least 30 days in advance of your party date, as a courtesy your non-refundable $300 payment will be held as a credit to be used towards another party date. This credit expires 90 days from the date that your party deposit was received

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Declaring Your Intention for Your Love Life

Declaring Your Intention for Your Love Life
The Love Guru Blaire Allison Live at JCC Tenafly, NJ
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Declaring Your Intention for Your Love Life
The Love Guru Blaire Allison Live at JCC Tenafly, NJ
Book the Love Guru for your woman's group
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Online Dating, Singles Events, and the Bar Scene Get Frustrating

Online Dating, Singles Events, and the Bar Scene Get Frustrating
The Love Guru Blaire Allison Live at JCC Tenafly, NJ
Book the Love Guru for your woman's group
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Online Dating, Singles Events, and the Bar Scene Get Frustrating
The Love Guru Blaire Allison Live at JCC Tenafly, NJ
Book the Love Guru for your woman's group
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